Most men tend to disappoint women in bed not because they are bad at sex. It mostly happens because they just can’t keep their mouths shut. Although women do love to talk and gossip at other times, they are really not interested in talking during the act. Unnecessary comments will not only ruin her mood, but it will prevent her from sleeping with you again. So, do not say anything that will offend her when you are in bed. The following are some such phrases that you need to erase from your vocabulary.
Not like that
Here is a tip. Never tell a woman what to do. It doesn’t matter if she is doing it wrong or if it bothers you, just don’t tell her – especially in bed. It is not only stupid, but it is also quite mean to criticize a women in the heat of the moment. It can not only offend them, but it could damage their sexual confidence too. Unless it hurts you physically, never stop a lady from doing her job.
My ex liked that too
Involving your ex will not result in better sex performance in any way. It will only makes matters worse for both of you. It does not matter whether it is your wife or some random girl you picked up from the bar, do not mention your ex. It not only shows that you are pathetic, but it makes her feel unimportant. Remember, women do not like to be compared to.
I have to get back in an hour
Do not give her a deadline. You might think giving her a time limit might lead to better sex performance, but it just a major mood-killer. First of all, it shows that you are not interested in being with her afterwards. This gives her an impressing that you are just using her for sex. More importantly, it can affect her self-esteem and make the whole act depressing. So, try not to mention that you need to leave early, at least until you are done.
Of course there is nothing wrong with saying this as long as you mean it in a good way. Never make a comment about a woman’s body when she is naked. This will make her feel insecure. She might look and feel different from other women you have been with, but there is no reason to point it out. If she becomes self-conscious about her body, it will kill her libido. So, try not to point out things that you find different or new.
If you want have a good time with the woman, do not say any of the comments mentioned above or better yet say nothing at all.